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Anonymous asked: why can't i kin outside of my race?

bpdkomaeda:

Because race is an integral part of a person's identity, especially if they are nonwhite. It influences each and every aspect of their life. By saying you're kin with/ID as a character who is a person of color when you are white yourself, you are implying that you can separate characters from their race, that all our lived experiences and struggles that come with being a particular race can be dismissed as immaterial without changing who we are. This is racist. You are erasing our experiences with race and appropriating our identity without ever having to experience all the pain that comes with it.

"I am not hurting anyone by being kin/id outside my race, it's a simple coping mechanism!"

Your coping mechanisms are not beyond reproach just because you're mentally ill, especially when they function at the expense of marginalized people. You are in fact hurting people of color -especially those of us who are mentally ill and use kin to cope. This is compounded by the fact that we are doubly marginalized by racism and ableism and are thus more likely to go undiagnosed/misdiagnosed/have poor access to mental health care. We already have extremely limited representation in media, and it is entitled of you to lay claim to what few characters we have to, when there are countless white characters you have to chose from..

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#kin - 7.29.14

yourfaveisproblematic:

MARINA AND THE DIAMONDS IS PROBLEMATIC

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Anonymous asked: isn't your girlfriend eighteen...

yes and? lmao

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randomassuser:

reminder that if you say the words "st***d" or "id**t" you are ableist and you're not welcome! ♥

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lms for my nsfw blog!!

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